1. What financial decision have we made together that you're most proud of, and why?
2. How do you feel about the balance between our individual spending and our shared goals?
3. What are three financial habits you see in me that you appreciate, and why?
4. What's one area in our financial life where you feel we could improve together?
5. What does financial security mean to you, and what can we do to achieve it together?
6. What would financial freedom look like to you, and how can we work toward that as a team?
7. How do you feel about how we manage our finances as a team? What would you change?
8. Is there a financial decision from the past that still bothers you? How can we move forward from it?
9. How can I be a better partner when it comes to planning for our financial future?
10. Do you feel like we’re prioritizing our shared values with our spending? If not, where do you see a gap?
11. How do you feel about the way we manage our savings? Should we be saving more or less in any area?
12. What’s one financial lesson you’ve learned from your past that you think could benefit us as a couple?
13. Do you think we are flexible enough in our financial goals to adjust when life throws us a curveball?
14. How can we make discussing money a more positive and less stressful experience?
15. What’s a financial boundary we can set to help avoid conflict in the future?
16. How do you think our financial habits impact our children (or future children), and what would you want to change for them?
17. How do you feel about the way we give or spend on others? Should we be more or less charitable with our resources?
18. How can we support each other better when unexpected financial situations arise?
19. What small, regular money discussions could we start having to stay more connected financially?
20. What’s one financial goal you’d love for us to achieve together that we haven’t discussed yet?